Showing posts with label Autism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Autism. Show all posts
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Climbing Castles & Conquering Fears
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
On The Mend
Well, Matthew's eardrum did not ruptured after all...thank goodness! He does however have a pretty severe ear infection. Bad timing too, as today he would have made the really fun trip with his class to Plantersville Texas, for the Texas Renaissance Festival. I hate for him to miss anything... this being his last year of School. Our visit at the doctors office yesterday went pretty much as expected. Randy restrained, The Doctor examined, Matthew screamed, and I to no avail tried to calm and comfort him. This is just one of the many hurdles of having a non-verbal child. After the doctor finished the examination, we were all pretty much frazzled and in need of a sedative. Randy took Matthew back out to the car while I got the prescriptions, and talked with the Doctor. What the screaming boils down to is anxiety....so maybe an anti-anxiety medication is what he needs? But he is only like that when he presented with the unfamiliar. He has the sweetest personality, and a most outstanding sense of humor. Other than the occasional antibiotic...he has never been on medication of any kind. I'm just not sure what to do.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Waiting for Dr. Appointment
Monday, October 11, 2010
Saturday Morning
It didn't take us long to figure out that Mr. Matthew had decided to make his own breakfast. He took a hot pocket out of the freezer, and popped it in the microwave. I am not sure if he removed the wrapper, not do I have any idea how long it had been cooking. Apparently it must have been a long time, as he obviously got bored and went on back to his room. The microwave got so hot that the breaker flipped, which made the it stop running thank goodness. The fire melted the door. On the inside, the hotpocket looked like a piece of charcoal, and was still glowing. We got the smoke out of the house as fast as we could, but I can still smell it.
We were fortunate in many ways. Things could have definitely turned out another way Saturday Morning. None of our fire alarms went off. They are tested every month...and even tested normal that day. I am not sure why they didn't work, but we have new alarms now. We have a new heavy duty microwave, with a child lock. We have removed the knobs on the stove. Funny, we try so hard to encourage Matthew to do as many things as he is able independently and when he does...it scares the hell out of us.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
10 Words To Describe Our Children
Well, it is another cold, rainy Saturday (hopefully the last COLD) and we are all taking full advantage of a day like this...as my children like to say...we are "Chillaxing". Randy and I were in our room talking about how over the years, the kids have changed, yet...stayed the same, and how much they differ from each other.So, we came up with 10 words to describe each of them.
Matthew

1. Musical
2. Affectionate
3. Hungry
4. Routine
5. Gassy
6. Talkative
7. Funny
8. Mischievous
9. Autistic
10. Silly
Stephen

1. Studious
2. Conservative
3. Curious
4. Inquisitive
5. Mischievous
6. Musical
7. Adventurous
8. Spiritual
9. Honest
10. Nerdy
Caleb

1. Talkative
2. Musical
3. Handsome
4. Thin
5. Smiley
6. Mischievous
7. Prankster
8. Tender
9. Happy
10. Diplomatic
Shelby

1.Natural
2. Ditsy
3. Mischievous
4. Gabby
5. Giggly
6. Casual
7. Musical
8. Helpful
9. Strong
10. Compassionate
1. Musical
2. Affectionate
3. Hungry
4. Routine
5. Gassy
6. Talkative
7. Funny
8. Mischievous
9. Autistic
10. Silly
Stephen
1. Studious
2. Conservative
3. Curious
4. Inquisitive
5. Mischievous
6. Musical
7. Adventurous
8. Spiritual
9. Honest
10. Nerdy
Caleb
1. Talkative
2. Musical
3. Handsome
4. Thin
5. Smiley
6. Mischievous
7. Prankster
8. Tender
9. Happy
10. Diplomatic
Shelby
1.Natural
2. Ditsy
3. Mischievous
4. Gabby
5. Giggly
6. Casual
7. Musical
8. Helpful
9. Strong
10. Compassionate
Friday, February 19, 2010
His World Is Good
It's 3:35 Friday afternoon...Matthew's bus arrives home as usual. The bus assistant puts his Friday treat in his hand, (a couple pieces of candy)makes sure that he has his jacket and Matthew responds with a hug. He turns and heads up the driveway, toward me standing at the front door. He see's me, he is smiling, he is happy...he's always, ALWAYS happy! His head is bobbing from side to side, his hands are flapping close to his face, he is making that shrieking noise...all of which he does when his world is good.Today is just the same as yesterday...and that is exactly how he likes it. The cars that had been stopped by the flashing lights of the bus slowly begin to move. It has almost become somewhat of a game to watch and see how many of the drivers simply drive on...and how many are going to turn their head and stare at him as he bobs, flaps, and shrieks up the driveway. He is oblivious to all of this...all he can see is me standing at the door, waving and smiling back at him....all that matters is that today is the same as yesterday...and his world is good.
We got new neighbors recently and all this week they have been having their roof re-shingled. Today when Matthew got off the bus...not only did these 5 roofers stare at him...but they stopped what they were doing, and walked over to our driveway to get a closer look. You would think that after 21 years of being his mother, the stares would no longer make me uncomfortable...and to be honest, most of the time it truly doesn't. But occasionally, like today, I can't help it.
Now, it wasn't like they were laughing at him, or making fun...at least I don't think they were...but they were staring at my son like he was some kind of freak show. I felt my skin get hot, I felt that queasy feeling in my stomach and I felt like crying. For the first time in a VERY long time I felt like shouting, "What the hell are you staring at!?!" But...I didn't...he reached the door, handed me his candy and jacket, smiled sweetly and gave me a hug... just as he did yesterday...and my world is good.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Temple Grandin-Different Not Less
This Saturday, February 6th, HBO will feature a Biopic film on life of Temple Grandin, a woman who has become one of the top scientists in humane livestock handling. She obtained her B.A. at Frankin Pierce College, her M.S. in Animal Science at Arizona State University, received her Ph.D in Animal Science from the University of Illinois in 1989. She teaches courses on livestock behavior and facility design at Colorado State University and consults with the livestock industry on facility design, livestock handling, and animal welfare.Temple has authored over 400 articles in both scientific journals and livestock periodicals on animal handling, welfare, and facility design. She has also written six books...two of which have been on the best seller list in both the United States and Canada.
Right about now you may be thinking, She really sounds like a very intelligent woman...but what is it that sets her apart from all the many other intelligent human beings in this world?
I could go on and on listing the accomplishments of Temple Grandin...but let me back up to 1947.
Temple Grandin was born in Boston, Massachusetts. Her father was a real estate agent, and her mother was a writer, singer, and actress. As a toddler she spoke very little, in fact...she did not speak at all until the age of three. She did not like to be held or touched, and when provoked, was prone to raging temper tantrums. She displayed the classic symptoms and was diagnosed with Autism.
She fixated on and was stressed by spinning or rotating objects and as she matured she began having panic attacks. She fled to her aunts cattle ranch one summer and well...I'll stop here just in case you may want to watch the movie...I don't want to ruin it for you ...but I will tell you that summer is when her life took on a new direction.
"I can remember the frustration of not being able to talk. I knew what I wanted to say, but I could not get the words out, so I would just scream." ~Temple Grandin
View Dr. Temple Grandin's professional resume.
Autism affects 1 in 110 children...1 in 70 boys. Chances are...if you do not have an autistic child yourself...Someone close to you probably does or will in the near future. This is an urgent and growing public health crisis that affects most individuals across their lifespan and demands a commensurate level of action from both the public and private sectors. WE NEED ANSWERS!
AUTISM SPEAKS It's time to listen!
"You have got to keep autistic children engaged with the world. You cannot let them tune it out."
~Temple Grandin
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Feb. 6th, 10:00 pm
The movie was really good...Temple Grandin is an amazing woman!
"You have got to keep autistic children engaged with the world. You cannot let them tune it out."
~Temple Grandin
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Feb. 6th, 10:00 pm
The movie was really good...Temple Grandin is an amazing woman!
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